ED: Psychological Issues
ED is not just a matter of biology, it can be as mental as it is physical. There are a number of reasons for this, and they vary from person to person. These distractions interrupt the brain’s need to relax and focus in order to become aroused and cause an erection.
This has biological roots: it is not conducive to evolution to have a species that gets so wrapped up in sex that they forget they’re hungry, or in danger from a predator. Thus, sex (reproduction) takes a back seat to what the mind perceives as more imminent issues.
But what if you let your mind become occupied with outside sources (work, school, responsibility) at the wrong times?
Stress
Life has a lot of potential stressors to offer anyone, and sometimes they can quickly steal our ability to relax.
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If you tend to become consumed by outside responsibilities then your ability to relax and become aroused is probably inhibited as well.
If stress finds its way into your bedroom and might be the cause of ED, consider eliminating stressors from your life wherever possible. Evaluate what in your life is causing stress, and figure out which of those causes can be eliminated. If you decide that a particular stressor cannot be eliminated or minimized, ask yourself what you can do to better cope with that stress. Perhaps you can make a goal to stop thinking about work once you leave the office, or to finish your studies as soon as possible so you don’t spend time worrying about them. |
Anxiety
Anxiety — related to performance or otherwise — is a common hurdle among men suffering from ED. Culture tends to hold up an unrealistic model for men (and women) to follow in the bedroom. But alas, sex is as imperfect and varied between people as any other aspect of a relationship, and it’s important to keep this in mind when thinking about one’s sex life.
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Talk about it: Get comfort
Different couples have sex in different ways, and sex is a process of mutual communication about your desires that should be evolving and changing based on both of your needs. If you are unsure about certain aspects of sex, don’t be afraid to discuss them with your partner; they will likely appreciate your consideration, and you’ll be able to know exactly where you stand rather than being forced to worry and guess.
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